There are bigger things in life.

Some people have reasons to be hurt, angry and feel justified in getting in their big 'get evens.'  As true as it is, it's not good for the children. The impact is going to be, if not already, very big.  I have laid all my hurt aside for them, but it takes two to make this transition work. I want to do it for the kids, myself and the other side of the equation. They would need to want do the same. The impact is the impact of a lifetime for our children.  That's a lot to think about.